Comic actor Ijoba Lande opened up about his marriage and relationship during a live video, revealing that his wife left him on January 1, 2025. While others were celebrating the New Year with joy, he was silently in pain.
He expressed his deep hurt but initially chose to stay silent for the sake of his child. However, he shared that for eight months, he and his wife had no intimacy, something he found unusual.
“I have never heard of a woman saying her hormones weren’t working for such a long time,” he stated.
According to him, his wife left their two sons in his care, making him both their father and mother. He also recalled that on the day she left, he had only ₦7,000 in his account but had to find a way to take care of his children.
Many netizens reacted.
Bunmi wrote: Married no hard nah you go carry load wey big pass you.
Adebayo wrote: If sense was a crime Lade you’re pure innocent, how can your wife denied you sex for 8 months and you still call it a wife? Be wise and use your brain
Adeyinka wrote: Then wetin she dey do for ur house sex is part of the enjoyment of marriage.
She should go make u marry another one that’s better.
Salami wrote: If sense was a crime Lade you’re pure innocent, how can your wife denied you sex for 8 months and you still call it a wife? Be wise and use your brain
Dats women for u bro!
Monsuru wrote: Mine left home 29th of December 2023 and came back home 4th of January 2024 to pack all belongings buh as a man I gats move on with my life buh tank God today am out of d country…ever since she’s aware of me not in Nigeria again she as been coming to my DM for diff excuses…mo ya sha iyae ni blocking.
So ijoba Lande u ar a man Neva let ur EX wife bring u down..bro focus on ur life and always av it at d back of ur mind dat wen u have money as a man, u will av d best babe around u bro.
Till today I have never discuss our separation with any of my nigga bcos dey bliev we still together.
Emi ti mo ti ko ogbon
