Nollywood actress and filmmaker Dayo Amusa has opened up about her journey into motherhood, describing it as the most fulfilling and meaningful achievement of her life.
In a heartfelt conversation with fellow actress Debbie Shokoya on the Motherhood with Mummy K program, Amusa shared her experiences—the struggles, triumphs, and immense joy that come with being a mother.
Reflecting on her personal challenges, she admitted that despite past mistakes, motherhood remains the one thing she feels she truly got right. “Motherhood is fulfillment. You kind of feel complete as a woman. That’s what motherhood means to me. Even if you’re not entirely whole, you still get the sense that you’ve accomplished something for yourself. I’ve made many mistakes in life, but being a mother is the one thing I know I did right,” she expressed.
Growing up in a loving and united family, Amusa always dreamed of having her own family. However, life did not go as planned. “I always dreamt of being with my husband and kids. I wanted it so badly, but I didn’t have it at the time I thought I would. But thank God, we are here,” she said.
Amusa revealed that her early years were dominated by ambition, as she focused intensely on her career. However, she later realized that her priorities could jeopardize her chance of having children. This realization became stark when she faced relationship challenges due to her struggles with conception. “I found myself in semi-marriages that failed because I was unable to conceive at the time, based on their expectations,” she disclosed.
Medical checkups revealed that Amusa had fibroids and Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS), which made conception difficult. She described this period as incredibly tough, as she grappled with health issues alongside societal and personal pressures.
Despite the hurdles, Amusa remains grateful for her journey, embracing motherhood with immense joy and fulfillment. Her story is a testament to resilience and the transformative power of motherhood.