Mama J, a Nigerian woman, sparked controversy online after criticizing wives who retaliate against unfaithful husbands by being unfaithful themselves.
In a viral video, Mama J, who appeared to be a relationship consultant, argued that such women are inexperienced adulterers and lack the wisdom needed to maintain their homes.
She emphasized that a good wife acts as her husband’s “mother,” meaning it is her responsibility to correct his behavior when he cheats, rather than lowering herself to his immoral actions.
She went ahead to reveal that wives are responsible for their husbands’ upbringings.
In her words, “You don’t have wisdom. You married that man to be his helper. Even if he is a cheater, you need to help him in that area. You are responsible for his upbringing too. Don’t you know you are his mother?”
The woman triggered massive reactions as social media users took to comment section to share their thoughts. Some reactions are shown below:
arikeeee_ said, “Just because you settle for less doesn’t mean this generation will follow that step ma👏 We are in 2024 now”.
officialchiamaka said, “Mummy biko do well to post your son’s photos so sisters can avoid them”.
kamtokene said, “Don’t train ur son,continue waiting for someone daughter to turn into a rehabilitation center”.
adedoyin.oyin said, “Kind Reminder mummy, This is 2024, not 1930.T for Thanks.”
grace_emmanuel_52 said, “We live in a world where parents focus on training their female kids for marriage forgetting to train the male. So it is my responsibility to to train a man that refused to be tamed? Hei, this generation is up to nothing 😢”.
arikeeee_ said, “Just imagine this kind of woman as your mother in- law😂😂😂😂 Your own don finish be that”.
Watch the video below: