Desola Afod’s firm commitment to stay by her husband, Kunle Afod, despite public scrutiny, has sparked varying opinions. Her statement during an interview with Debbie Shokoya on her Talk Show, where she vowed to remain with her husband even in the event of infidelity, led some to label her as having low self-esteem.
As a mother of four boys, Desola expressed her reasoning, highlighting that leaving her husband due to infidelity doesn’t guarantee faithfulness in another relationship.
She emphasized her husband’s virtues, acknowledging his imperfections, yet considering him a good man. She stated that unless there’s physical abuse, she sees no reason to part ways with him. Discussions around relationships and self-esteem often involve complex and subjective perspectives.
“Kunle Afod is not perfect but he is a good man. If I decide to leave him based on what people say or what he did, I will still meet the same thing where I’m going.
“Let me get this straight, you ask that I leave my husband because he is cheating, will the new man I am going for not cheat? Debby, I won’t lie to you, it’s a lie it is a big lie. I tell people to always persevere understand themselves and be tolerant. And like I said, no marriage is perfect”.
Reacting to her interview, netizens tagged her as a woman with low self-esteem they berated her for such a statement.
One Everything Mayowa wrote, “Sorry but this interview is not only embarrassing but it’s giving me pick me vibes. Does this woman know there are sexually transmitted diseases that are not curable
One Culcookies wrote, “God teach me to raise my daughters right! What kind of illiteracy is this? Low self-esteem and thinking you are unworthy are simply why a woman accepts cheating and because Nigeria isn’t open to women becoming more
One Annie Bestowed wrote, “Low self-esteem. Anyways you live your choice
One Loveliness wrote, “If low-self esteem was a person. You open door to disrespect after you’ll as who raised these men. The question should be who enable these men”.