An online buzz surrounds a Nigerian man, Ayo, who faced heartbreak after his girlfriend ended their relationship because of his excessive kindness.
Ayo took to his verified X (formerly Twitter) page to share a WhatsApp message he woke up to, revealing his girlfriend’s decision to call it quits.
In the message she left for him before he woke up, the woman explained that she couldn’t carry on with the relationship primarily because he was overly nice and lacked emotional expression.
She mentioned that her boyfriend’s inability to display anger or annoyance, although cute, wasn’t what she desired in a partner.
The woman stated she had moved on and advised her boyfriend to do the same upon reading the message. She concluded by informing him that she had blocked him.
She wrote; “Hello Ayo, good morning I bet you’re still sleeping and I hope this message doesn’t really come as a shock to you.
I know you don’t like when I write epistles but I really can’t help it cus I’ve thought about it and I know this would be hard for me to say and hard for you to accept but I don’t think I can continue this anymore.
I mean, I CANNOT CONTINUE THIS RELATIONSHIP ANYMORE.
Don’t get me wrong, you’re a nice guy as a matter of fact, I think you’re too nice. And that’s one of the reasons this can’t work.
You barely express emotions, when I expect you to be mad at me you don’t, you don’t show anger or annoyance. I mean, it’s a cute thing but that’s really not the kind of man I want for myself.
I trust that you can understand. I’m a woman that is thinking of settling down and this isn’t what I want for myself.
I’m really sorry if this would ruin your morning when you see it tomorrow. But move on, cus I have moved on already. I hope you find someone that would love you the way you are, unfortunately that person is not me.
I would be blocking you for my sanity and mental health cus I know you’ll want to beg me, I don’t want to be emotionally guilt tripped into changing my mind. I’ll advice you do the same Take care and thank you for loving me the way you did, I’ll forever cherish that.”
Upon waking up in the morning to see the message, Ayo who is not expecting the “breakfast” responded;
Babe are you serious now?
What is all these fgs?
Wait, did you block me?
Sharing the breakup message from his girlfriend, he wrote; “I can’t believe what I just woke up to read, fuvk this is hard for me 💔.’
See the exchange below;
WAKING UP TO THESE MESSAGES, I DON’T EVEN KNOW HOW TO FEEL
LOL, IT’S BACK TO THE STREETS I GUESS HTTPS://T.CO/NWXUJR96VT PIC.TWITTER.COM/A1MPSMB5QG
— HERO (@Hero_Singx) December 8, 2023