Well-known Nollywood actress and producer Mercy Aigbe has opened up about a deeply personal and emotional chapter of her life. She revealed how strong opposition from her former mother-in-law forced her into single motherhood.
Speaking on Iriri Mi, a program on WasilaCoded TV, Aigbe shared the challenges that led to the breakdown of her first marriage. She recounted getting married at a young age, soon after completing her education, filled with excitement about starting a family. However, her marriage quickly encountered difficulties, as her husband’s family—especially his mother—strongly opposed the union due to ethnic differences.
Despite Aigbe’s efforts to create a happy home, her mother-in-law’s opposition remained relentless. She recalled feeling unwelcome and constantly struggling to prove herself in an environment where she was never truly accepted. By the time she was just 23 or 24 years old, she faced a heartbreaking choice: endure a marriage filled with hostility and disapproval or leave to protect her peace and her child’s well-being.
The actress opened up about the emotional and psychological toll of the situation, revealing that she desperately tried to hold on, hoping for change. However, the pressure became overwhelming. Ultimately, the frustration and emotional distress reached a breaking point, leaving her with no choice but to make a life-altering decision.
“Everyone’s journey is different,” she shared. “After completing my education, I got married and had a child. But my husband’s mother opposed our union, insisting he could not marry a non-Igbo woman. The battles were many, the frustration was overwhelming, and eventually, I had no choice but to leave with my child and raise them on my own.”
Aigbe emphasized that the transition was incredibly difficult, as she was still young and had to navigate life as a single mother while rebuilding her career. Entering the Nollywood industry came with its own challenges, but she remained determined to succeed, knowing she had a child to care for.
Her story sheds light on the complex family dynamics that many women face in marriage, especially when dealing with opposition from in-laws. She highlighted how societal expectations often pressure women to endure difficult marital situations for the sake of appearances, but ultimately, prioritizing one’s happiness and well-being is crucial.
Aigbe’s journey serves as an inspiration to women who find themselves in similar situations, reminding them that leaving a toxic environment is sometimes necessary for personal growth and a better future for their children.